As important it is to inculcate good habits in your children, is to equip them with the essential problem-solving skills. Often, parents get so lost fulfilling the basic demands that they start overlooking the importance of this essential skill. A study published in the Harvard Business Review magazine ranked problem-solving at number 3 in a total of 16 factors that influence a leader’s success. Therefore, if you wish to see your child as a leader and take on challenges in a mature way, teaching them this essential skill is a must.
There may be instances when they would need some expert advice, but most of the time, your role will be to teach them ways to solve things themselves instead of solving everything for them. Allowing them to ponder over a thought or a challenge to decipher solutions will make them confident, smart, and successful.
Teaching your children the essential problem-solving skills goes a long way in life. Instead of getting frustrated and giving up on challenging situations, they will be able to think creatively and manage emotions in a better way. In this article, we will discuss the best, research-based practices to help your children develop essential problem-solving skills.
Some Best Practices
- Model-effective problem solving
- Asking for advice
- Asking leading questions
- Being open-minded
- Playing games
Model-effective problem solving
Think about your own mental state and the strategies you follow, when you come across a challenge. Telling your children how you cope up with issues can be done every day so they can learn from your example.
Asking for their advice
Another strategy you can follow is asking your children for advice when you come across a challenge. Being authentic will teach them that it is common to face challenges, make mistakes, and learn from them. When you give them the feeling that their ideas are valued, they’ll gain the confidence required to solve problems on their own.
Asking leading questions
When your children come to you asking for help on something, do not provide them with a solution immediately. The task may be a bit tougher for them to understand, but you can still break it down into smaller steps and offer multiple solutions for them to choose. You can also ask them leading questions that will help them find answers on their own.
Being open-minded is important if you wish to build healthy and happy relationships. Several studies suggest that reliable partners can hold their values while also considering other’s perspectives and integrate disparate views to come up with effective solutions.
Allow your children to assess a problem outside of immediate details and be open to taking risks so they can come up with a better and more innovative approach to problem-solving.
According to research, the most complicated of problems get solved when our mind is free to think. One such situation when a human mind thinks freely is while playing games.
Any activity that takes your child’s mind off the problem also holds the power to refuel them and give them a fresh perspective to think about it. Therefore, the next time they get stuck on something, you know what you need to do.
Finally, allow them to learn from their mistakes
Problems may come and go, important is how we deal with them. Let your children fail and try again till they succeed. Teach them the meaning of “persistence is the key to solving the toughest of challenges.” Only when they will get to face problems head-on, will they be able to learn. And remember, problems are not to make your child’s life miserable, but to lead them closer to what they want to achieve.